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# compiled advice to my past self
-this started as a note to younger me. it grew into a general document of things i've learned that i keep coming back to. not all of this is original — some came from [[mentors|wiki/mentorship/pattern-recognition]], some from experience, some from friends.
+this started as a note to younger me. it grew into a general document of things i've learned that i keep coming back to. not all of this is original — some came from [[mentors|pattern-recognition]], some from experience, some from friends.
## general
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## the meta-advice
-most advice is about what to do. the real skill is knowing whose advice to take. my [[filter coefficient|wiki/mentorship/disagreeing-productively]] evolved from "accept everything from smart people" to "weight advice by how well the person knows my specific situation."
+most advice is about what to do. the real skill is knowing whose advice to take. my [[filter coefficient|disagreeing-productively]] evolved from "accept everything from smart people" to "weight advice by how well the person knows my specific situation."
and the most useful advice i ever got wasn't advice at all — it was a question: "what do you want?" asked repeatedly until i had a real answer.
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-*see also: [[the stocks metaphor|wiki/mentorship/the-stocks-metaphor]], [[social wins|wiki/things-that-worked/social-wins]], [[social strategy|wiki/strategies/social-strategy]]*
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+*see also: [[the stocks metaphor|the-stocks-metaphor]], [[social wins|social-wins]], [[social strategy|social-strategy]]*
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